Step Eight:

Healing Completely

Quantum Scientists Changing the Rules of Our World

Here is the final phase in the Guide to Heal From Toxic Relationships.

I am a fan of scientists like Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Greg Bradden, and Dr. Bruce Lipton. These scientists are revolutionizing the science model of how we look at ourselves, how we look at our world, and the key to how we can heal from trauma and abuse.

This information is known as “Epigenetics” and I am telling you this because this is what changed my life for good and how I healed myself and now others from the inside out.

Don’t take my word for it do your own research before you dismiss what I am saying.

What Epigenetics is doing is releasing us from old outdated models. Paradigms that have held us back from who we truly are physically, mentally, and emotionally granting us the faith, the belief, and the knowing that we can take our power back and step into our authentic self.

Once I realized how much my consciousness had to do with not only my own but also my ancestor’s levels of dis-ease, I no longer had to accept that I was stuck with the painful trauma in my life from living with an abusive narcissistic partner. These wounds were deep and not easily removed from our bodies and our energy.

What this actually meant is that I realized I could change myself and change my life and this is true for others regardless of your history or levels of a trauma you suffered.

We can change ourselves and our cells literally, and the ways we do this are not just through health and dietary habits. Primarily it is through our beliefs, our programming, our emotional state – the vibrational state we show up in the world.

So How Do Quantum Truths Relate to Your Final Step in Healing From Narcissistic Abuse

Being in a relationship with a narcissist diminishes our ability to function when our mental capacities, emotions, and ability to generate a healthy life. are under siege as a result of being narcissistically abused. We simply can’t go on “as normal” anymore.

It is so important to find powerful ways to change ourselves and our lives in the midst of such trauma.

I was the victim of abuse and if I kept this simplistic model of thinking: ” I am destroyed. It is your fault.” I would NOT have healed.

And it took me years to figure this out. I am here to help you in hopes that you do not have to spend all those years trying to resurrect your life.

So now what? We have moved on…but we are still feeling miserable and stuck.

Sadly this is the model that our world has been far too invested in. Often the model includes medications, numbing ourselves, not thinking about what happened to us, or even believing that because we have left we are now healed.

I have mentioned that I attended an excellent therapist for a year when I was with my narcissistic partner and this helped me immensely to see that I was in an abusive relationship. It was a good first step for sure but to actually heal I had to find something much more powerful. I did not know at the time that there was a way through quantum healing that would change me and my life forever.

I found a way to heal from within and get to the root of why I ended up in this terrible abusive relationship, to begin with.

I became aware that I was in a state of dis-ease because I had trapped emotions, and blocked trauma inside my body and being. Once I found the way to energetically release the trauma I was able to return to a state of natural well-being.

Today I help others heal and become not just healthier but far more radiant than before they were narcissistically abused. While cleaning up the narcissistic abuse trauma in our bodies we also pick up, release, and heal the original traumas that led us into this narcissistic abuse. We deal with the trauma we might have inherited from our parents and other ancestors, but even from past lives, from trauma that comes with us through our DNA.

Narcissistic abuse trauma is significant and does not simply end when the narcissist is gone from our life and there is no further contact or drama.

The trauma lives on inside us until it is resolved and is not dependent on whether the narcissist is still abusing us or not. Such trauma is showing us that there is a much greater reality going on inside us than five sensory/solid/real stuff.

When you work on your emotions you also work on your deeply held beliefs. Beliefs are thoughts that we keep thinking until they become a belief within our subconscious minds.

What happened in my life due to narcissistic abuse was powerful enough to affect my entire life and the emotions/consciousness which is the unseen world. We are so much more than our flesh and blood bodies. We are energy and this is not usually seen by the naked eye but can often be felt. Think of a time when you walked into a room where there was a small group of people and it ” felt” heavy and unhappy. You found out later that two of the people there had just had a big argument a few minutes prior to you arriving. These lower vibrations were still hanging in the room and you felt them.

The unseen world is far from nonsense.

Our emotions and beliefs are the complete basis of how we feel, what we think, how we show up, how we behave, and how we generate life experiences that will amount to everything.

Approaching Life in Quantum Ways

If we believe that our consciousness is generating our wellbeing we start thinking very differently about what will help us get well.

We stop trying to force things outside us to cause change and know to make it our goal to make the changes on the inside.

To heal on a quantum level means there is no outside to combat and there are only the inside emotional traumas and painful beliefs which it will not help to finger point, yell, expose, or eradicate while you stay angry, derange, angry, or victimized.

By not loving yourself it is continually adding to your trauma. By poisoning yourself with blame and judgment you can produce deeply destructive peptides (chemicals) manufactured and running through your being. Your emotional self is being destroyed regardless of whether the blame is directed at yourself or others. It’s all toxicity.

It is the model for not only our New Selves but for our New World. I am excited beyond measure about it!

Healing on an energetic level, removing the trauma I held within me caused me to truly change my life forever. I freed myself from the hell I was in finally.

You can change and heal as I did from your narcissistic abuse.

I can help you.

Let me know when you would like a conversation about finally letting go of your pain and abuse.

You are so worth it.

Love to you

Debbi