Healing My Past

After overcoming a 14 year relationship with a malignant narcissist and now, helping my child to heal from the terrible abusive relationship with her narcissistic father, which almost brought an end to her life, I have made my purpose in life to teach people how to recognize what exactly narcissistic abuse is and how to help them heal, for real, from abuse.

As an Inner Liberation Therapist I help women understand and shift the reasons why they were abused and then truly heal from their past abuse. As a result, my clients are able to claim back their personal power, break free from patterns of abusive experiences and create a greater life than they were ever able to have even before being abused.

Often, those of you that have been a survivor of narcissistic abuse do not believe you are good enough, worthy enough and feel they can never a happy satisfying life. You may experience crippling anxiety, panic attacks or suffer from depressed moods. Or you may actually have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder ( PTSD) due to the abuse and trauma you have lived through as a child or as an adult or may even be living now. As a result, you have may have symptoms of triggering flashbacks, nightmares or even suffer from addictions, using alcohol or drugs to cope with the pain, feelings of fear and even debilitating constant terror you are experiencing . You may not be aware that these issues and symptoms are a direct result of what you have lived through in your narcissistic relationship.

Until you release and let go of the trauma within and the energy blocks, you will not be able to fully heal and may feel stuck or trapped in your own life. It could be being stuck to find a new loving relationship, be unable to attain financial success or even physical and emotional stress related issues.

I am here to help you. I work with women, survivors of narcissist abuse, and I have not only survived the abuse, I have healed from it. I can help you heal and change from within, healing from the narcissistic abuse you suffered. No one can truly understand what this kind of abuse is, feels like unless you have lived it. It is excruciating painful and you can feel like you are going crazy. Trust me, you aren’t and you can not only heal, you can be happy again.

As children, we have all taken on beliefs from others, especially, from birth until the age of seven. For example, you might have been taught as a child that you are not enough and do not matter. This is a limiting belief that was not yours to begin with and came from someone else in your life, a parent, a grandparent, an Aunt, a teacher or someone else who had an influence in your life, however this belief remains and is held in your subconscious mind and your body.

We all have a conscious mind though, and we believe that this conscious mind of ours is in charge of what happens in our life. So, if we decide we want get a good education and be able to support ourselves throughout our lifetime and this will bring us a happy stable satisfying life, which is all very good however, we can’t seem to make this happen. We can’t actually get into the school we want, we also can’t get a job to make the money to get into the school, we keep having what appears to be roadblocks in our life preventing us from achieving what we want to have our satisfying life. It is because what is really driving us is the actual belief in our subconscious mind that is ” you are not good enough.”

We may not even be aware we have this negative belief and we have even been saying affirmations, practicing meditation or thinking positively and of course, this will all help you to raise your vibration, but until you clear out the root of the belief which is “I am not enough” that you have kept in your body energetically, you will not get the happy life you want to experience.

This belief affects you and your life, as they all do. As mentioned, you may not even be aware you have this belief or any of your beliefs. Not all beliefs are negative however, and we need them in our life but it is the negative ones which can prevent us from moving forward or keep us stuck and from being our true selves.

I am here to help you identify your beliefs and energy blocks/traumas which can remain in your being and preventing you from being fully healed, being your true self.

You might have been sold a bill of goods that just don’t work to heal from your past trauma and abuse. Until you get to the root of the issue and heal the beliefs as well as heal the energy blocks on deep levels within , not just in your subconscious mind, that are keeping stuck and perhaps causing you to repeat the same negative patterns in your life, you will never be free from your past. You can practice gratitude, cut cords, go to talking therapies (which do help over the long haul for support and teaching new coping skills ), offer forgiveness and giving to others, you will not be able to fully heal until you release the inner beliefs and energy blocks that are within you.

I have been where you are. I thought I would go crazy thinking their was something wrong with me not him. I tried everything to make the relationship with this narcissistic partner work however, when I finally understood who he was, which took a few years for me to understand, I left him and then I did the real healing with energy work. After doing this energy work I was able to actually heal completely from the narcissistic and emotional abuse which I held within me for many years.

I am a educated mental health clinician with an extensive background in crisis intervention and although I attended therapy with a very excellent psychotherapist for a full year. It was not until I healed myself from within was I truly able to get free from this past abuse and trauma completely.

My work is dedicated to helping you awaken your power and truth, remove the energy blocks and trauma you have within you and heal the parts of you that have been battered and held in your body.

This works, I am living proof and the malignant narcissist I lived with no longer has any control or power over me. I am healed 100 % completely due to the energy work I did on myself (work which is done on a quantum level and is scientifically proven) and now I dedicate my life to helping my daughter heal and others who have suffered the kind of abuse that is unimaginable. Unless you have been through it yourself, it is very hard to explain or understand.

I help others heal from the pain, the trauma and the abuse, finally becoming free and then moving on to become the true authentic self you were meant to be.

I am also here to offer information, resources, healing affirmations and ASMR and actual 1:1 healing sessions, to help any women heal fully within themselves from their past abuse as I did.

Research has pointed out that what children experience in their childhoods become the framework for their future adult lives. What you may not be aware of within your mind and body may have set you up for your future narcissistic partner or emotionally abusive relationship. And the abuse you did suffer remains within your body and energetic body which causes blocks in many many areas of your life you are not aware of.

I am here to help you heal from your past programs, limiting beliefs and energy blocks. Free yourself from your past narcissistic and emotional abuse by coming into alignment with your Higher Self and live the life you truly deserve. If you have any questions or would like to set up a 1:1 healing session with me, please send me an email:

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Love & Light to you

Debbi