Be Resistant To An Abuser By Going Within
You have been through hell with a narcissist and of course, you want your power back so you can be free from the narcissistic abuse and that it is no longer your reality.
You want to have 100% resistance against them.
There is a way you can do this, and it’s achieved by activating your resistance from them from within.
There is a way to break away from and get physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually free from a person who is destroying your life.
This absolutely works.
Have a listen to this valuable information about getting free from your abuser and the effects you have from the narcissistic abuse. If you would like to read the information, find it below the video.
This absolutely works.
If You Don’t Go Within You Go Without
You can take your power back and this is done by going within, whether this is in relation to narcissists or with anything we fear.
Regardless of what a narcissist tries to do, know that you can become resistant to them.
You can win this fight against the darkness that has filled your life.
What Does Resistance Mean?
It means protection or immunity from something. It means not having to experience this thing anymore, or even at all.
How do we become resistant to something?
The obvious answer is to be powerful and know this to be true.
This power comes from within, as the activation of our own already inner coded wisdom, health, and freedom. It is our Divine Right to live as the highest expression of ourselves, regardless of outside threats.
We are all a part of Source and all of Creation so we would all have this right.
We give our power away by not believing this, seeing ourselves as a lesser being that struggles with belief and faith in ourselves, our rights, value and power.
This is a perfect position for the narcissist to latch onto you and permeate your life and soul. They can then feed off your energy and resources for their self-serving agendas.
This is a state of not having resistance.
Looking For External Resistance
When stuck in the powerlessness of narcissistic abuse we often try to get somebody else to offer us our protection.
But does this work?
In my life, and that of so many others, the experience was of people in our lives not being able to help us. Maybe they didn’t even believe in our cries for help, let alone believe they should support us.
Additionally, what is common is authorities not holding the narcissist accountable, and even laws being non-existent to protect us.
Of course, this can lead you to feel like you are a victim, incapable, and unsupported as though you are on your own when trying to stand up to, break free from and get free from the narcissist who is destroying your life.
Trying to Deal With The Devil
If you haven’t become resistant to a narcissist within your own being, then you may believe your only option is to try to get this person to play nice or change.
Maybe you are struggling to get past the heartbreak if you leave or you may feel threatened by your narcissistic partner if you do leave. You are well aware of how angry and hostile they are and you know they will be unreasonable if you try to leave.
You might feel afraid you can not survive on your own if you leave.
I understand as I was also in an abusive relationship with a malignant narcissist for years so I know how you are feeling.
I tried to keep the peace when I was in this position of helplessness, by giving him what he wanted, believing it would stop the abuse. But it is a bottomless pit and will never stop.
He was never satisfied and would never stop sucking my life and soul dry. There will never come a point where the payoff to you is safety, health, or love. He will never ever get it.
Eventually, you come to realize this and you can’t make a deal that equals to selling your soul to the devil.
The Person Behind the Mask
A miracle begins to take place when you start to take your power back.
When you turn within taking your own responsibility to heal and you begin to work on your fears and insecurities that you’ve had about yourself (which is all the stuff the narcissist is bringing up and triggering within you) then your narcissistic partner who is hurting, manipulating and using you for their own agenda, starts to lose power.
You might have figured this out or are learning that narcissists need your fear and pain to exist in your experience. When you cut that off and go inside to the pain and fear and heal it up for yourself, then the narcissist can no longer use your negative and traumatized energy against you.
You discover that this person doesn’t have their own energy force. They are empty vessels and are not powerful. They are like parasites who feed on your lack of resistance (fear and wounds) to be able to get their claws into you and start messing with you.
This is exactly what narcissistic abuse is about.
If you are dedicated to your well-being, want to break free from the pain and trauma, and step into the authentic you, who you really are, then you must realize that you need to take charge of your own life and take your power back.
You’re in charge of you and your life.
How to “Be” Resistance
The number one thing on how to be resistant to a narcissist is to do the deep inner work on your wounds so that you are no longer triggered. We all have wounds.
Then you will show up as clear, calm, and powerful during very difficult times.
This will help you to start emerging as knowing who you truly are. Your truth and values will start to feel real for you and anchored in as your body truths. You will begin to not be driven by fear which enables them to manipulate you to hand over your power.
This will break free the belief that your narcissistic partner is your Source and that you need them for anything or that you can’t live without them.
You must remember that you are an incredible Creator who is capable of creating worlds.
Now you have unlocked the truth to life, that you are a powerful being and you do not need this abusive partner.
Your greatest mission is to create and claim Who You Really Are, a ” Spiritual Being in a physical body living temporarily on Earth creating your own reality.”
Then you can disconnect and simply understand the facts and truth, and keep releasing all and any of the fears that arise for you.
Without even needing to know outcomes, you just live, relying on your Higher Being to have your back. You will begin to attract a very different life and the magic of life around you starts forming to support and confirm exactly this truth.
The Conclusion of Narcissistic Resistance
You can heal your life and live an exceptional life as a result of clearing up all the internal fear, pain, and insecurities that we have all carried that were assigning other people as our Source, causing us to hand our power away to people who can hurt us.
Right now we are all now in a time of Grand Awakening, a time of taking our power back from outside parasitical forces of many varieties.
You can be free from the hold that a narcissist had on you and actually truly step into the powerful authentic woman that you truly are by releasing your fears, distorted beliefs, and pain that you have had most likely all your life.
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Debbi