Wholistic Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

Here is a video I made to talk about how to heal after narcissistic abuse using energy healing. Find the written post below the video.

What Energy Blocks Mean

The first thing I want to say is after I left my ex narcissistic partner I felt immediately better however since I had to still have low contact with him due to the child we had together and had to parallel parent, ( although I discovered you can not co-parent with a narcissist ) I still felt lost in and stuck in my life. Stuck in ways that I could not explain or understand.

I was definitely physically free from him however I did not feel free, at all. This new free life felt like I was still emotionally and mentally attached to him. Even as time went on I continued to feel like I was trapped not just stuck and definitely unable to move forward.

Things like a loving relationship, financial abundance, good health, and a satisfying career seemed to be just out of my grasp. And parenting with him was next to impossible and I would describe it as a nightmare. He continued his lying, manipulation, sense of entitlement, gaslighting, and arrogance with little empathy for anything or anyone.

Even though we were not together, I had to have frequent contact with him due to our child. It was not until much later on in the situation that learned there were other ways to co-parent where I did not have to see or talk to him directly.

I also learned many years later the horrifying news that he had turned his abuse towards his daughter. Throughout the years, I found out he had emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually abused her. There is no doubt in my mind that he is a malignant narcissist and toxic parent.

I have since discovered that the real key to healing and finding the true way back to living a happy, successful, and peaceful life is to release the trauma from within your being and heal on many levels. This means releasing energy blocks within your body permanently. Energy blocks that I had due to the abuse I suffered. These blocked emotions were stopping me from being my best version and being my True Self. The releasing and healing of these energy blocks raise your consciousness and good things begin to come to you effortlessly. Your life will miraculously change for the good.

Nikola Tesla said,” If you want to find the secrets to the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibrations.”

When you understand that everything is energy, you understand that everything can be manipulated.

It’s pretty simple and the scientific explanation is – it is all about positive and negative ions.

Since energy is neither created nor destroyed, but instead changes form, your goal is to intercept as much energy as you can, remove any blocks using energy healing, you can, therefore, begin to feel healed from the trauma which has affected you and controlled your life, perhaps, since you were a child. Perhaps you even brought the trauma with you into this life in your DNA.

Most people have an understanding of what energy is in the body and how it feels. This energy is determined by how energetic or not you feel. This simplified explanation is correct, of course, but it is not all that energy is.

Energy, though, powers more than just your drive to get up and go. It is the energy behind your ambition, your creativity, and your happiness. Energy flows through every aspect of who you are and powers your ability to feel, think, and act upon it all on many levels.

Many problems that you find yourself dealing with are due to your energy encountering a block. Issues such as low physical energy, anxiety, depressed mood, an inability to have a loving and intimate relationship, or even a lack of money are due to these blocks. These blocks are literally stuck in your being and need to be released for your “flow” to continue properly. Once the blocks are released, your energy can get to where it is supposed to be, which enables you also to get where you want to be.

Everything is energy

Everything is Energy

The Universe is a vibrational place, and our vibrations, our frequencies, are our attracting points. What this means is that anything from our past that is holding us back is creating a negative attracting point. In other words, it is bringing negative things to us because of the negative frequency that we are operating at.

Our frequency can be compared to how you might tune your radio to a station you want to listen to. We are all operating on ” a frequency” and whatever that frequency is other things at that same frequency are drawn to because of the vibration we are operating on.

My goal is to help you remove your energy blocks, and thereby raise your vibrational attracting point and shift your set point. After you remove your energy blocks, you will find yourself aligned automatically to a higher frequency.

No matter what has happened in your past, even in your distant past as a child, you can heal.   You can attract people and circumstances in your life that serve your growth. 

When we come from a past that is oppressive or abusive, we are brainwashed and conditioned to believe that what we think does not matter. We are programmed to dissociate from what we are feeling. And when we are taught that what we feel is insignificant, we learn early on to disassociate from our bodies. Once we disassociate, we also disempower ourselves. Until we change our vibrational set points, by removing our energy blocks and healing ourselves, our lives cannot change.

How To Clear Your Energy Blocks

Clearing Energy Blocks

Energy blocks can cause many physical issues within your body. These may show up as disease, mental health issues, digestion problems, or even nutritional issues. If you are prone to colds or general sickness, most likely, you have energy blocks within your body, causing these symptoms.

Many people, in fact, most people, including me, have mental and emotional blocks that prevent us from being our true selves, our authentic selves.

I use powerful energy healing to release and remove these blocks. We will work on issues you have related to the past trauma you may have encountered in your childhood, or even from past lives, or from a recent abusive relationship, and release these blocks. We will then install beliefs that you are more in alignment with.

Some have said to me that they have the same problems appear in their lives in different forms. They do not understand or know why they cannot stop this pattern from re-occurring in their lives. They might have tried other treatments or therapies with little or no success in relieving them of their pain, whatever that may be. Not until they remove the problem, remove the block energetically, can they truly heal. I am a living testimony to this.

I Have Healed From Narcissistic Abuse

I found myself in a relationship with a malignant narcissist, where I suffered trauma and abuse for many years. In order for me to even see I was in an abusive relationship, I attended talking therapy with a therapist for a year. While I had some success that enabled me to leave this abusive relationship, get some support, and move on in my life, I was not truly able to heal, however, it was not until I found energy healing that I was able to remove the root cause of the abuse and trauma within me. It was after this that I was finally able to completely heal from my past abuse. I am finally free.

I have since learned Energy Healing, and I am now an Energy Therapist. I have also learned several forms of energy healing and I have used these modalities to heal others. I work with women who have suffered abuse in their lives, and usually, narcissistic abuse that has caused them to feel very stuck. I can help because I have been there. I also felt very stuck in my life. I can help you heal with energy healing to remove energy blocks on many levels, just as I did. I am able to do this remotely, as neither time nor space holds barriers to energy healing.

If you find yourself stuck, and unable to move ahead in your life; whether that is to find love again for yourself, or you suffer from anxiety, fear, and panic because of past trauma, or you find yourself repeating the same patterns in your life, I can help you. Sometimes you may not even know that these patterns or issues are related to your past abuse and are still held within your body and being until they are released.

I have genuinely healed from my past narcissistic abuse, and now I dedicate my life to helping others to do the same.

If you have any questions or would like to know more about how to finally heal, please find me here and DM or you can reach me here on my website.

Your trauma does NOT need to define you or your future, whether that be from childhood, or you are repeating your childhood patterns in adulthood and you find yourself in an abusive relationship with a narcissistic abuser now.

Healing From Trauma

I am living proof that you can heal from the:

  • trauma
  • trauma bonds
  • faulty unconscious programming
  • depression
  • anxiety
  • panic attacks
  • reactivity
  • symptoms of C-PTSD or Narcissistic Victim Syndrome
  • and many other issues or problems

These issues are directly related to your inability to move ahead, in one, or many areas of your life.

As an Energy Therapist, I am honored to be able to help you with your faulty programming, reprogram your subconscious mind, and help you heal from abuse, on many levels.

By healing yourself, you will be able to manifest the types of relationships, family, and work experiences that you truly deserve. You will finally live your life as your True Self.

I dedicate my life to helping women just like you, who have suffered from narcissistic abuse heal from within.

Love

Debbi