Repeating Those Nasty Cycles and Patterns in Your Life?

Have you ever wondered why we keep having the same experiences repeatedly in our lives? Does it make any sense to attract the same type of friends, partners, and situations in our lives?

Here is the video where I discuss why we seem to have repeating cycles and patterns in our lives. If you would like to read the post find it below the video.

Could these cycles and patterns be showing up because of a lesson we need to learn?

One of the reasons this may be happening to us is that we have a lesson to learn, and we haven’t figured this out yet. What if these lessons were part of our soul contract? We will continue to bring to us the same experiences, behavior patterns, or similar types of people until we ” get ” this lesson.

I remember having relationships with the same kind of person over and over again until I got the lesson I had been missing. It sounds simple, but clearly, I did not see what the lesson was. With each relationship I became involved in and did not learn the lesson, the Universe would make things more extreme and send me someone far worse for me than the previous one. The last relationship where I figured out the lesson was with a malignant narcissist. He was pure evil and a demon. I have to say I learned my lesson this time. 

It has been a difficult lesson for me to learn. Unfortunately, my growth needed to experience this. I have come to conclusion that we decide where we will go and what we will learn or experiences we will have each lifetime and even pick our players out with other souls before we get here.

In a Beyond Quantum Healing Hypnosis session you may see your lessons played out.

Lessons you are trying to overcome and find that the same souls come to help in many of our lifetimes.

Have you thought about how you made an agreement with a soul to play a specific role in your life? It seems we make agreements with certain other beings to play roles in our lives to try and help us overcome our issues and blocks. It may also be that we simply want to experience particular situations.

So, you might find that your father in this life that has played a challenging role for you and his role in another lifetime was to be your mother where the two of you played a similar situation.

You weren’t able to overcome the issue in your past life, so you decided to give it another go in this life. The two of you make an agreement to play certain roles in each other’s lives so you can push each other to become better versions of yourself.

So you are probably thinking, but why do certain people need to be such a challenge for me?

How are the people in your life helping you to expand?

The answer may be to learn to:

• be more patient
• forgiving 
• compassionate 
• help you stand more in your power
• love yourself and other unconditionally 
• or one of many other reasons that are helping you to become your True Self.

Even the most difficult person in your life pushes you to look at the situation and have you see if there is another way of handling things.

In my Beyond Quantum Healing Hypnosis Sessions, your Higher Self will share that you choose certain souls from within your soul group or even from other soul groups to push you and challenge you forward in this life. And there are times we take on more than we know we can handle.

From a soul’s perspective, looking at the life ahead of them, it feels like it will be easy to overcome any challenges we choose for ourself.

However, when you get here and incarnate into one of these dense bodies, no longer in your light body, and you are dealing with other people’s free will, things don’t always flow as you’d hoped.

You get weighed down by all the weightiness of this planet, the health issues, addictions, bills, health issues, separation, the habits of life, and your plans may cause a great deal of stress and uncertainty.

Some people become stuck in their situations and feel they don’t have a way to get out.

Difficult situations and people provide growth opportunities.

Higher Self would say that this is all part of the game we came here to play. Suppose an opportunity to change and grow comes up and you let it go by; another one will come along and allow you to handle it differently.

There is no judgment on our choices from a spiritual perspective, only the need to shift our actions as much as possible.

So you may ask yourself, how can I stop certain experiences from cycling through my life. The simple answer is to choose a different path. Change your actions and responses.

It’s essential to learn to stand in our power and not allow others to take it. Shift our attention away from what we don’t like and put our attention on creating what we love.

It may be a surprise for you to learn that you chose to have some of the most challenging experiences in your life, and you even chose those playing the most difficult roles. But, it is a game of life, and we are all playing our parts.

Outside of these physical bodies, when we are back in our light bodies, we love all those who have been a part of our lives. We don’t hold the emotions in the light body that we do in the physical body.

How can you change your actions and behaviors to shift the situation?

It may be hard to look at a situation in your life that is proving to be so challenging and see that people in the circumstances play a role in helping you grow and become a better version of yourself.

Ask yourself, how is this person helping me grow?

Look beyond your emotions and ask yourself what do I need to change within myself to help me overcome this situation? How is this challenge asking me to become a better person, and how can I react differently to the situation.It does not mean allow them to take your power or allow yourself to be harmed in any way.

I know that some challenges are so much more complex than others, and if you feel that you are not ready to shift yet, the best thing to do is send love.

Use healing love and energy through focused intention to help shift the situation.

Visualize a situation in your mind, and with intention, imagine the light of any color and love showering upon whatever is causing you pain and difficulty.

This is part of the work I do with clients in a BQH session to help them release the trauma and pain they have been carrying in the body from these difficult experiences.

During the Quantum Healing Hypnosis sessions, I see the roles that others play in my clients’ lives. There are times you get to be the bad guy, and times you get to be the good guy. Those within your game of life have been with you for lifetimes, and their role in each life is to help you grow as a being. So you play different roles in each other’s game of life. 

But the point is to try and overcome the issue through making better choices and learning to let go.

And if that doesn’t work, send healing energy to a person, situation, or a past life experience. The healing light and energy will magically begin to transform the experience, which helps to release that energy in this current life.

You also have souls in your life that come to play support roles and help you through your life, so it’s not always about challenging, difficult experiences.

When you are out of this body and back in the non-physical plane, no matter what a soul did to you or said to you in this lifetime, you do not bring this with you.

I wanted to share this with you so that if you keep experiencing the same situations repeatedly in your life and you want to know how you can end the cycle, take a good look at it from this perspective.

What lesson do you need to learn to release the challenge from your experience?

It’s not about what do they need to do to change., They may be playing this role on purpose to help you to learn something. So if you can focus on yourself and the changes you can make within, that may shift that experience into a much happier one. It may bring in healing in ways you never imagined.

If you want to learn about the people in your life and how their roles help you grow, think about having a Beyond Quantum Healing Hypnosis Session. 

It is the perfect way to understand the people and experiences in your life and what choices you can make. You can often find out how others play roles in our game of life and we can see the lessons we have chosen this lifetime by looking at past lives.

If you would like to talk to me about a session or are ready to have a BQH session book an appointment with me.

Much love to each of you

Debbi