Posts by Debbi
What Is Narcissistic Abuse?
Please listen to this video on what narcissistic abuse is and what I experienced when I was in a relationship with a malignant narcissist. I hope this will be of some help to you whether you are in a relationship with a narcissist or you know something is wrong but can not put your finger…
Read MoreSuffering From Narcissistic Abuse? 8 Signs To Know You Are
I was in an abusive relationship for years. I did not know or realize this for years. Here is a video that you might find helpful which gives you 8 signs that can indicate to you that you are involved in an abusive relationship. If you would like to read the script, it is below…
Read MoreLack Of Empathy- Traits of a Narcissist
I am hopeful that by learning about Narcissistic Abuse and the traits commonly found in narcissists you will begin to understand that you are neither crazy or the problem. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist you know something is very wrong. Learn here about the traits of most narcissists. One of the…
Read MoreWhat is The Heck is ” Word Salad? “
My ex narcissistic partner used many tactics from his ” abusive toolbox ” and one of his best was something called word salad. Here is a video explaining what this is and how he and other abusers use this to get you off balance and make you think you are going crazy. Below the video…
Read MoreSerial Provokers
My ex narcissistic partner used a lot of tactics to try and unhinge me and keep me off balance. He was a ” serial provoker” and would use this constant arguing all the time. Here is a video explaining what he did and how he would use this abusive behavior to always have the upper…
Read MoreMy # 1 Myth About Narcissistic Abuse
When I was in the relationship with my narcissistic partner I used to try and figure out why and where his problems came from. I somehow thought if I could figure out this out, it would help me. Here is the #1 Myth I had about why he was the way he was with me-…
Read More“If Only”
I used to believe that somehow ” If Only ” I had only done this or not done that, things would not have been so awful in my relationship until I figured out he was a narcissist. But before that, I would go over every single incident in my mind wondering what happened and what…
Read MoreHe Never Hit Me
I did not understand for years that I was being abused. Have a listen to this video where I explain some of the abuse he used with me. I hope it will be helpful to you. If you would like to read the transcription please find it below the video. Well, no my narcissistic partner…
Read MoreWhy Did This Abuse Happen To Me?
I asked myself a thousand times why did this narcissistic abuse happen to me? I have healed from it but there was a time when I thought it was my fault. I did find out how I was vulnerable to my ex narcissistic partner targeting me. This video will explain what happened to me and…
Read MoreExcessive Sense Of Entitlement
Anyone who has AN EXCESSIVE SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT believes that the world and the people in it owe them something. Narcissists feel entitled to special treatment that they do not deserve or have earned, and they expect complete obedience from their children. It is not uncommon that narcissists expect everyone to continue to obey them…
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